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Ruthie's avatar

It’s actually really helpful when you talk about your struggles - there are so many of us out there, also struggling, and somehow it helps to know that we’re not alone. And the fact that you are able to pull yourself up and bake, gives me inspiration that I could at least try and do something as well. I always look forward to your messages. I just wanted you to know that you are helping so many people. xx

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Stephi Blackwell's avatar

Hey Ruthie - bless you - thank you so much for that support, my only hope is that I might be able to help someone somewhere and sometimes I worry that I miss the mark! Cannot tell you how much your message means! Hope you have had a good week and are enjoying the weekend. xxx

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Scott Hilles's avatar

Yes the holiday can bring on emotions we just don't need put upon us at a specific date. I understand, and know you must miss your father terribly.

Looking forward to making your salad suggestion. Don't have sumac but it appears coriander is a good sub. Have a nice week. Scott

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Stephi Blackwell's avatar

Thanks so much Scott! Let me know if you made the salad! Hope you had a good week! x

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Scott Hilles's avatar

The salad worked. Yum. Well received. I had never made tahini dressing before. Just have used tahini for humus. Who knew?! Thanks.

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TheLadyJane's avatar

Everyone has struggles and hurt in life, regardless of wealth, status, fame, beauty, so don't apologize. It's part of being human. You are mourning and it is so very hard. Be gentle with yourself. I'm praying for you. Hooray for lists of lovely things which cheer! Those are so important.

The pineapple upside down cake is beautiful!

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Stephi Blackwell's avatar

Thank you SO much for the message and your empathy!!! x

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TheLadyJane's avatar

You're welcome!! ❤️ Grieving takes a lot of time and comes out on unexpected ways. It does get better!

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Johanna's avatar

Keep on keeping on Stephi! I look forward to your posts and writing every week! Pineapple upside down is my daughter’s favorite cake so I’m so happy to see a recipe for it. Sending best wishes from Boston, MA!!

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Stephi Blackwell's avatar

Awh Johanna - thank you so much! Hope you had a wonderful week! x

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Cindy Thompson's avatar

Dear Stephi,

Thanks for being so honest about your struggles. Sometimes I feel the same, but I’m too much of a coward to tell even my husband. You’re an inspiration.

Cindy

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Stephi Blackwell's avatar

Bless you Cindy! I'm sorry to hear you struggle sometimes too - I find it hard to admit at times as well, but it's often better to share how we feel with those we can trust and are close too than keep it to ourselves - when things stay in my head, they fester way more and become so much more mighty than they are in reality! Sending so much love to you - I hope you have had a good week! xxx

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